I learnt a long time ago that if a woman wants a man (available or not) it will take a strong man not to succumb … even if he capitulates – just for the sex.
The truth is that “a man will ONLY have the woman who wants him”! (Barring rape, coercion, etc.)
Think about it, she could live right next door, unemployed, destitute and with time on her hands and no reason to say “no”, except that she doesn’t want you! She’s not attracted to you! She doesn’t feel that ‘connection’! And try as you may, flowers, money, the works … you will NOT have her (freely).
BUT; if she wants you … if she’s in to you … then she could live in Timbuktu and it’s 12 o’ clock at night … and you say, come over … SHE’S THERE!
Why then are some men fooled sometimes (or rather often)?
The signs are always there! You know whether she wants you or not!
So, has she fooled you (taken advantage of you and your generosity) … or did you fool yourself?